I decided to give the app thing another go, but surprise surprise - it's really tough. These men do not know how to behave. They can't even pretend to be decent humans for some quick chit chat. Maybe it'll get better?
Here's sweet Freddy in my sink:
You are worthy of love, kindness, and affection, from yourself and from others. XOXO
Ugh, you are very brave.
God bless you.